side effects of death.... stoppage of breathing, stopping of heart, loss of appetite, and in this case a one way TRIP TO HE!!

Maybe it'd be a good idea to spend some time apart for a while, or at least start hanging out in groups. The more one on one time you spend together, the more her hopes are getting up. If you do end up alone with her, just try not to sit too close, and say goodbye to her like you would any other friend. When you're ready, maybe you should pursue this relationship. I mean, you are clearly very attracted to her, so don't forget to be honest with yourself about feelings. But do wait until you're ready for a relationship.

Alright so I just noticed it recently and i'm not sure how long it's been there, it's not bigger than a possible bug bite but it's not itcy what so ever. It's really tiny. It's not painful. I've never had any cancer or serious illness except I had bronchitis once when I was like 12, i don't know if that has to do with anything. My allergies have been acting up a bit lately, could that possibly be it?

Sounds like maybe he was telling the friend to mention the alleged sex tape to you in hope you would offer him money to destroy it. I would call the police and have him arrested!

The mutual friend is probably lying. It is a lot of bother to superimpose someone's head in a video. The mutual friend is just fishing to see if you had a sex life with your ex. If he was so nervous as you say and only lasted a few seconds, it is unlikely he would get the confidence to make a movie!!! A married guy complained to my ex that his wife was frigid, so as a stir, my ex told him we didn't have any sexual problems, in fact we had threesomes. He just did it as a joke, as we didn't have threesomes at all. But this lie caused a lot of trouble. People tell outragous lies about other people, for no apparent reason. Just stirring, they're bored maybe. It is very hurtful, the things some humans will do to others. On the other hand, your ex may be saying that you were involved in a threesome, because he is trying to give others the idea he is a big stud and you know he is not and he is embarrassed about that. I would avoid both him and the mutual friend.

passive aggressiveness is a defense mechanism that allows people who aren't comfortable being openly aggressive get what they want under the guise of still trying to please others. They want their way, but they also want everyone to still like them.

something similar happened to one of our hamsters. if they are right at the back of his bum, and they're symmetrical, they could be testicles ! we thought we had 3 girls, now we have 2 girls, 1 boy, and 25 babies. have a look on google pics to see what hamster testicles look like, and if they look the same, then you've got your answer. hope this helps x